What is the secret to being very happy?
It's very real, just choose to be happy .
Happiness is right and you can be happy all the time if you want.
The more you choose to be happier, happier you will be. The more you choose to be happier, happier you will be. The bigger the happiness you choose happier you will be. How can you be happier? Just felt happier, more often and in larger quantities.
Unhappy people are only unhappy because he chose to be unhappy. They associate unhappiness with many in their lives. You chose to be happy, congratulate much on your life.
The bus is late? An unhappy man sees this as a source of unhappiness. Not you A very positive person, happy man, like you, chooses to make the bus a late source of happiness. You have wanted to enjoy people who watch others in the queue or listen to your favorite songs on the phone or read the book you are enjoying.
Are you going to arrive late? An unhappy man sees this as a source of unhappiness. Not you Very positive person, happy man, like you, choose to be late as a source of happiness. Your boss gets to realize that you are usually a punctual person, because late is unusual for you. You show your boss that you are a conscientious employee by making time without being asked. And by being late, you miss the early morning queue for the boiler.
The account's utility comes and is much more than expected? An unhappy man sees this as a source of unhappiness. Not you Very positive person, happy man, like you, choose an unusually large account as a source of happiness. There is a chance for you to use some of your savings to pay off and this gives you the opportunity to reflect how much you have saved and how smart you were saving. There is a chance for you to say "Help!" and then finding new ways to earn more income for your home and in that process learn new talent that you have forever and meet new people.
The choice to be happy is your choice . It sounds like I say obviously, but I'm often surprised by the number of people I speak to who only understand this when I express it clearly. They have little eureka moments. Before such an instant, while intellectually knowing that their happiness is their responsibility, they act in practice as it is the responsibility of others. They teach the government, their family, their neighbors or the people in the queue before them for their unhappiness and not themselves.
After a little moment of revelation, I can see that they now know both in their head and heart that, despite what happens around them, they are the ones who respond to it. It's up to them: – Choose to be happy.