This American female journalist (1913-1983) and author of Neurotic Notebooks and Columns in Cosmopolitan and Vogue actually said many good things. Here's a smattering, with my comments to follow:
"Nobody really listens to somebody else, and if you try it for a moment, see why."
Listening has a strange prize, but they are never immediately. It requires faith to be effective listening if we are left behind. Cleverly do it because they know that it's the only way to communicate in the same way.
"Successful marriage requires in love to be often, always with the same person."
They say that marriage is difficult … never, definitely! But that's true. If we love what he speaks to us or that she waits for each of our words, why do we stop doing that? Continue to avoid. Magic begins with you and him or her. You can influence and motivate others.
"If you made a list of reasons for what married couples marry and another list of reasons for their divorce, then you have a lot of overlap."
Marriages broke up for the same reason that attraction began. We stopped trying. The opponent is & # 39; never stop trying & # 39; and our interviews will inevitably be successful, and thriving happiness can always be found or rediscovered.
"For the happiest life, the days should be precisely organized, nights after opening for an opportunity."
Oh voila! Declining the preacher wisdom, this testimony is about keeping life simple. Only a simple life, with space and space to move, can be happy. We must work hard, yes, but we must also choose to rest, restore and spend quality time with loved ones – and also find the necessary time spent.
"It's the most unhappy people who fear the most."
Go photo. Most of the change gives unusual to unhappy complainants. In fact, these aids change if the change medium is patient enough. The & # 39; black hat & # 39; can affect and cause deviations from the original program and better results are achieved – no unhappy person would agree … suddenly they have played their participant!
"Hope is the feeling that we have the feeling we have is not permanent."
This is a funny truth about hope. We know we have not got it anymore when it's suddenly gone, or as it disappears quickly from the point of view. Forgiveness surrounds our minds and hearts, and we seek to regain it … our hope.
"If you are brave too often, people will come to expect you."
This is a rather sad truth. When we meet people's expectations about our skills in each region, they naturally start to trust themselves and trust us. We can only (eventually) release them.
"We quickly learn our limitations, we never learn our powers."
Negative thinking has a lot to answer for. It is like being invisible on certain beaches in 1916 and looking to the left (lands) at the death and destruction of Somme without looking calm, a rhythm of ocean that never changes. Some people never mind looking right, and even worse, some simply do not choose .
"Probably not, the child you can do the least with, will do the most to make you proud."
This is another image & # 39; A statement that simply reminds us that God surprises us strangely sometimes. We must be surprised. & # 39;
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