When you were young, you answered what the outside world introduced you. As you mature, you learned to control and manage your responses according to what you found to make you happy with the least resistance. Unfortunately, these reactions are repeated on a regular basis, becoming practices that begin to become unconscious. Many habits you have created since childhood have continued for your adult life as this response became your standard.
When we respond to what the world introduces us makes us a "victim." This robs us of the choices and opportunities that lie ahead of us and diminish our ability to be creative. Having a choice is one of the greatest gifts we can give to us, without exception! Consciously choosing to change and have what you want, you must break away from apologies, habits since childhood and you can only start taking advantage of the freedom to respond to any situation you want.  So it's so easy? Not really, at least from my point of view. It will only take 24 hours a day. Quality and amount of how we experience that time is often not what we wish or plan. An easy way to create more of what we want and less of what we do not take on personal responsibility and become aware of the decisions we make at any time.
Some years since I attended a personal development plan (over six months), my mentor asked for 1000 people "When will I stop playing the victim?" Wow! This came as a real surprise to me as conscious, I was not aware of what I was doing, but consciously did I do this to draw attention? The habit I created did not work well, but the revival changed my life. I was too blind to see the obvious ones. But equally important, I developed to rely on where I was with what happened around me and decided to take personal responsibility. The transformation has been a journey and an endless discovery of my identity.
- Do you have the courage to take full personal responsibility for everything you think, feel and happen without teaching you?
- Explore what's going on around you. What's happening?
- Is that what you want?
Your willingness to accept is indeed a gift. Embrace this as a way of life and develop personal responsibility that gives you personal freedom. Taking personal responsibility for all of your actions, strengthening you, strengthening your independence, and allowing you to treat your conscious future. In order to be very effective, you may need to cover down and sharpen your seed – be consistent with where you are and what's going on around you.
It's your choice. Current mental, emotional, and behavioral practice your future. You already know this, take the time to ask yourself some deep questions. When you do, you will have taken steps to attract your entire life, success and happiness.
Success and happiness comes from you – not what we expect it to be outside of us.