Recently, I had an unusual conversation with a woman calling for a 20-minute consultation on my service. If not unusual it was at least different; the first of its kind. However, I suspect that many others have the same attitude, but don't say it.
The woman said she didn't want her to do what I was going to help her because it was more like a job and she just wanted to feel better. I do not want to change anything, she said, I thought hypnosis might change while I was under "# 39;."
I did not ask many questions since it seemed to be resolved in its position.
However, it led me to write about what I have known about people being reluctant to seek healing: what was her comment? And what can I learn from her? I started thinking about a potentially emotional undercurrent:
o I want something that makes me feel good, but I don't want to think too much or change anything. I want a fascinating story that gives me a temporary escape or maybe bury my pain for a while. I can tell my friends and they will also be fascinated.
o Is she saying: I work in my head? adventure dust? I do not want to use ideas of my faith, thoughts, feelings, and actions?
o More possible questions to follow. Is the self-image something she wants to avoid? Perhaps the dots are related to its patterns – cause and effect, its thoughts or ways to relate to it are too painful?
o Perhaps she is frightened by personal meditation, what she might unknowingly know about herself (assuming there will be an earthquake or painful experience?)
o Maybe she doesn't want to go beyond her knowledge of life, though being can be limited or quite painful.
o Maybe she doesn't want to make a personal emotional investment in her life or relationships? Does she want to hold back?
o Does she have any disgraceful behavior and / or benefit from pain?
o Is she afraid she knows the cause of her pain then she is afraid she will fall into the abyss without taking advantage of it – the pain she is familiar with and everything else is unknown, ignorant and scary.
o Maybe something else?
These questions are questions that everyone faces when thinking about making changes to make the difference between one's life and one.
I confess a part of me enjoying reading and consuming any abstract and good story in the universe. However, at the same time, I know that information is just as good as one uses it. And I was determined in the decision to apply what I learned from reading – not just for myself but also for the people I assist in their transformation.
This is empowering and sometimes only a watch for many. But necessary change. Everyone needs to turn in to create self-esteem. Everyone needs to listen to what you say to yourself. The majority of people have been indoctrinated to believe that such "talking to self" is an indication of some sort of alphabetical disorder.
I allow the experience of working with thousands of people over the years as a linguist to form the core of relationships within me and speak these laws and patterns in a way that is understandable and conducive to good action, healing and health.
I trust and enjoy this process for myself. And I have the privilege and privilege to guide people in their journey to self-respect and healing.
Your inner life is a source of hype, inspiration, hope, trust, faith, purpose of life, and leads to an ever-widening and comprehensive of what you truly are and what you have to offer to yourself, others, and Universal processes.
As you practice self-reflection and transformation, you will enjoy yourself at the moment, more than ever, and it will continue to grow and grow emotionally and spiritually.
It won't necessarily be easy every time. Personal and professional trust, gratitude and challenges can drive you to make the necessary changes to your life.
You can be your own hero. You might be kicking, screaming, swearing, ranting, tearing, stumbling, crying, passive, sarcastic and bitter when this personal and communication story goes over like a sudden event.
But such moments will also be your salvation in those times, something in or around you led to self-esteem – led you to find the true you under all the muck and mire of the in-shack and your conditional existence.
I understand, honor, respect, and appreciate that the majority of you reading this are frightened mad about what you "ignorant" about yourself if you are automatic.
You want to focus on the other. You want your spouse, spouse, siblings, parents, friends to do better to change and to take away pain and suffering.
You want abstraction. You want pills. You want an easy answer. You want to submit yourself to & # 39; doctor & # 39; s & # 39; Office should heal & # 39; of pain. You want magic. You want to get dust that makes it all go away.
I understand. If I could create such spells, I would patent it because thousands of people would stand in time for an hour to wave them over them.
You neglect this position because deep down, within your central area, you believe or fear that you have nothing to offer, do not know what you can offer, or are afraid that you will encounter a terrible, inferior evening soul . How often did your parents say, & # 39; What's going on with you? & # 39; "You never …" "You never …" "You should not .." "And the list goes on. You internalize these accusing words, and now keep running the endless loop in your head.
This internal discussion is automatic and you have little attention to it; other than requesting it or pushing it away.
Channels that perceive pain, lost hope, insufficient, worthlessness, rejection, guilt, shame, embarrassment, and fear run like a violent river through you, which seems to have no control over you.
Thus you fear self-reflection. You just want an easy solution, quick fix, & # 39; pill to die work – how has it worked for you or someone you know?
You may have collected the library of interesting books and ideas but they do not touch you. You read them, enjoy them. But little or nothing was interdependent.
What would a real change-driven or career-related change in your life look like to you?
It might not be as bad for you as you fear.
Instead of fearing your power, believing it to be devastating, you can find your power that gives life as you choose your power, kindness, and majesty.
Remember, this is a real change because most of the world around you wants and needs you to believe you are missing, you feel that you need them and would be without them. This belief puts you in priority and one conclusion.
They have not made a radical change to a genuine and powerful self-based self-image that gives them peace and purpose and balance with all others.
So be easy with yourself as you progress. See this as a journey; a journey that is actually eternal. See each shift as the most exciting, joyful journey you will never board. Stay with me and let me speed up your journey. I'm just here to be very helpful.
Start exploring each shot and hooking up and discovering the value of your life, love and joy that you can possibly send to others, your creativity that creates a unique you, your humor and your unique way of seeing others and the world.
You're waiting for you to meet as a representative. The universe is waiting for you. Your partner, spouse, family, friends will also benefit when you make your gifts.